I had a couple of crappy messages from my neighbour the next day but not much, for the next 4 days nothing happened other than my neighbour ignoring me but trying to be my partners best friend, inviting him for breakfast, trying to chat to him etc, THEN They went away and left me so I left and came home (right next door!) I'm to scared to tell them I don't forgive them nor forgotten them. After a few drinks I felt more comfortable and wanted to clear the air from a few years ago, again I apologised for what I said, I told them I know what they did then but I forgave them.
3 weeks ago, my partner was working on his car on the drive, *we share a drive with next door, and we was chatting, them and me had a few drinks outside the front doors, about 10pm her friend who I mentioned above came and joined us. After a couple of years my neighbour became "friends" again and stupidly I thought I could trust them, not with anything massive just lending £20 every now and then, my daughter would go next door and play, with me watching, never alone. Within a few weeks my neighbour and other person fell out and only spoke occasionally and stupidly I carried on being friends with my neighbour, I am uncomfortable with confrontation and suffer with anxiety. Within the next week I had my tyres cut on my car, my tumble dryer stolen from my outside cupboard, I was reported to social services and reported to my children's school for theft as I was the chair if the PTA, both social services and the school did investigate and both came back with no further action as all accusations were made anonymously and found to be untrue. After a few drinks I commented on their Facebook they was too bothered about drugs to attend our friends party, (I have always said I'm sorry for putting that on Facebook even though it was true) I shouldn't have said it on social media and I was wrong. My neighbours moved in 7 years ago, we was good friends, nearly 5 years ago I arranged a birthday get together for her, one of our closest friends didn't attend, they were and still very much into cocaine, I didnt know until that night. I'm being bullied by my neighbour/ ex friend.